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Stillpoint

About Stillpoint

Stillpoint helps families understand their options and connect, at no cost, with licensed funeral and cremation providers nearby.

When someone dies, or when you are planning ahead, it can be hard to know where to begin. There are many decisions, and the information is not always clear.

Stillpoint is a free, multilingual matching service in the United States. We help families learn about funeral and cremation choices in plain language, and we help them get connected with licensed providers near them if they want that support.

Who we are

Stillpoint is here to make a difficult process feel a little clearer. We offer general educational information about funeral and cremation options, and we help families get matched with licensed funeral homes and cremation providers in their area.

We serve people who are making arrangements now and people who are planning ahead. Some families want a simple cremation. Some want a burial. Some want a memorial or celebration of life. Some do not know yet. Our role is to help you understand the choices, the questions to ask, and the rights you have before you speak with providers.

We also know that families do not all speak the same language or come from the same traditions. We aim to be respectful, clear, and easy to understand. If it is helpful, you can learn more about how it works or read guides about at-need arrangements.

Why we exist

Funeral and cremation decisions often happen during grief, stress, and time pressure. Even planning ahead can feel heavy. Many people tell us they are unsure what is required, what is optional, and what a fair price might look like.

We exist to bring calm, plain-language guidance to a process that can feel confusing. Families deserve to know that they have choices. They deserve honest information about common services, typical price ranges, and the protections that apply when they speak with a funeral home.

We also believe families should know their rights under the Federal Trade Commission's Funeral Rule. In general, you have the right to:
- Ask for an itemized General Price List (GPL) from any funeral home
- Buy only the goods and services you want
- Use a casket or urn bought elsewhere
- Decline embalming when it is not legally required

Embalming is rarely required by law. Prices can vary widely by provider and by region, so any numbers you see should be treated as typical ranges, not quotes. It is wise to ask each provider for its GPL and confirm prices and fees in writing. You can read more about your Funeral Rule rights.

What we are not

Stillpoint is not a funeral home, crematory, cemetery, funeral director, or insurance seller. We do not arrange funerals, perform cremations, transport the person who died, prepare the body, sell caskets or urns, operate cemeteries, or issue death certificates.

We also do not sell pre-need contracts or final-expense insurance. If you are planning ahead, it helps to know these are different products. A pre-need contract is usually tied to funeral services with a provider. Final-expense insurance is an insurance policy sold through a licensed agent. If you are considering either one, ask how your money is protected, what is guaranteed, what can change, and what happens if you move or cancel. This is general educational information, not legal, financial, tax, or insurance advice.

Our role is narrower and simpler: we help you understand your options, and if you choose, we help connect you with licensed providers so you can compare and decide for yourself.

  • We do not make decisions for your family.
  • We do not recommend one provider as the right choice for everyone.
  • We do not replace legal, financial, tax, insurance, or professional funeral guidance.

How we stay free for families

Stillpoint is free for families to use. There is no charge to ask questions, learn about common options, or request a match with providers.

In general, services like ours may be supported when providers pay to participate in a network or to receive introductions from families who ask to be connected. That support allows us to offer information and matching at no cost to the public.

Being free does not change your rights. You are still free to compare providers, ask for each funeral home's GPL, and choose only the goods and services you want. You can also use a casket or urn bought elsewhere, and you can ask whether embalming is actually required in your situation. Before moving forward with any provider, confirm that it is licensed in your state and ask for prices in writing.

If you want background first, our pages on costs and pre-planning may help you prepare questions.

Our promise

We try to be steady, clear, and respectful. We know this may be one of the hardest moments in a person's life. We do not use pressure. We do not tell you there is only one right path. We do not treat grief like a sales opportunity.

Our promise is simple:
1. We will explain choices in plain language.
2. We will be honest about what we do and what we do not do.
3. We will remind families of their rights, including the right to an itemized GPL and the right to buy only what they want.
4. We will describe prices as typical ranges, not quotes.
5. We will encourage families to verify licenses, ask questions, and confirm costs in writing.

Every family is different. Religious needs, cultural traditions, budget, timing, and personal wishes all matter. A direct cremation may be right for one family. A burial with viewing may feel right for another. A memorial service later may be the best fit for someone else. Our goal is not to push a choice. It is to help you make an informed one with a little less confusion.

What you can expect when you use Stillpoint

You can use Stillpoint in a simple way.

  • Start by learning about the options that may fit your situation.
  • If you want help finding providers, share a few basic details about location and the kind of service you are considering.
  • We then help connect you with licensed funeral homes or cremation providers near you.
  • You can ask each one for its GPL, compare services and fees, and decide what feels right for your family.

You are in control of the next step. You can ask practical questions about transportation, permits, timing, memorial options, burial, cremation, and what is included in the price. If you are planning ahead, you can also ask what can be documented in advance and what remains flexible.

Some families want only one provider. Others want to compare several. Either approach is reasonable. What matters is that you feel informed, respected, and free to choose.

Common questions

Do I have to pay to use Stillpoint?

No. Stillpoint is a free matching service for families. We provide general educational information and, if you want, help connect you with licensed providers near you.

Is Stillpoint a funeral home or cremation company?

No. Stillpoint is not a funeral home, crematory, cemetery, funeral director, or insurance seller. We do not perform services or sell merchandise. We help families understand options and find licensed providers.

Can Stillpoint tell me exactly what a funeral or cremation will cost?

No. We can share typical price ranges for educational purposes, but those are not quotes. Costs vary by provider, location, and the services you choose. Ask each funeral home for its itemized GPL and confirm prices in writing.

What should I ask a provider before I decide?

Ask whether the provider is licensed in your state. Ask for the General Price List, what is included, what is optional, and what fees may be added by others. You can also ask whether embalming is actually required, since it is rarely required by law, and whether you may use a casket or urn bought elsewhere.

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